Tuesday, April 19, 2016

Somethin' About the Water


The picture above holds more childhood memories than I could ever explain to you.  What you are seeing is a section of the brook that runs through Spring Mill State Park Pioneer Village.  My earliest vacation memories originate in this very State Park.  Growing up camping was the most economical way for a family of four to vacay, and we did it a lot!

I can't tell you how many times I sat next to this brook to cool off or waded into it with my parents.  I can't fathom how many hours I sat on the banks just listening to the sound of the water as it bounded through the village.  Then one very special day a few years back, God taught me the coolest lesson sitting on the banks of this very brook.

Now there is something you need to understand about the way God talks to me.  Some of the most astounding revelations I have received from God in my life have been while I was on or around water.  I would love to explain it, but I can't.  Some people go to the beach to get tan, I go with my Bible, a notebook, and an expectant heart.  Some people get in a canoe to slowly drift down the river, I go with a notebook or digital recorder on me somewhere just in case.  Something about the water calms my spirit enough to hear God's voice so clearly it's as if he were sitting right beside me.  So it is no wonder, I would learn a lesson sitting by this brook.

My family was there on vacation like so many times before, but instead of camping we decided to stay in the parks Inn.  I can never seem to sleep soundly in a strange place, so I got up extremely early one morning and headed out on my own.  I took the trail behind the Inn down to the pioneer village.

In my backpack, I had my Bible, a notebook and a pen.  It was my plan to have my devotional time in one of my favorite spots.  As I sat down on the stone wall that sat on the banks of the brook, I closed my eyes tight to listen to the sweet sound of the water as it rushed by.  I realized at that moment how much the water sounded like music to me.  Quietly I heard a voice whisper to me and say, "If the water never crashed upon the rocks, the brook would never sing."

So simple, so true.  If the water never endured the clash of the stones in the brook as it made its way, it would never sing the sweet melody that I loved so much.  What a simple but powerful reminder.

We all endure hardships in life.  We feel as if we have been beaten, perhaps at times even defeated.  But who would we be had we not encountered those struggles.  In

James 1:2-4
"Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance.  Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete not lacking anything."  

Sometimes we must go through some struggle to learn, to grow stronger.  It doesn't mean it's fun but a necessary part of life.  As we find our way through difficulties, we grow stronger and gain the experience we need for tomorrow.  At least we haven't been through as much as Paul in 2 Corinthians.  He boasted about it!  I find this passage awesomely hilarious.


2 Corinthians 11:23-30, 12:9-10
"Are they servants of Christ? (I am out of my mind to talk like this.) I am more. I have worked much harder, been in prison more frequently, been flogged more severely, and been exposed to death again and again. Five times I received from the Jews the forty lashes minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods, once I was pelted with stones, three times I was shipwrecked, I spent a night and a day in the open sea, I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from rivers, in danger from bandits, in danger from my fellow Jews, in danger from Gentiles; in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and in danger from false believers. I have labored and toiled and have often gone without sleep; I have known hunger and thirst and have often gone without food; I have been cold and naked. Besides everything else, I face daily the pressure of my concern for all the churches. Who is weak, and I do not feel weak? Who is led into sin, and I do not inwardly burn?If I must boast, I will boast of the things that show my weakness.But he said to me, My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong."

Paul, the greatest missionary to ever walk the Earth, was proud of the mess of his life because God used the mess in his life to reach the World.  We may struggle, but in our weakness Christ makes us strong and can use our story to impact those around us.  

Today, you may feel that you can't endure one more hardship.  You may feel abandoned by God and too weak to fight.  I think we have all been there at some time in our lives.  But allow God to build you up!  To take you through those struggles, and to build you up, to make you strong.  You are never alone.  God is always with you, and He does care for you.  Just don't give up, keep waiting on Him and he will answer your prayers.  God has an answer, and he will use your life to help others find their way.  
 
I love that little brook in the pioneer village.  It is a source of great peace for me and a powerful reminder that with every struggle I endure my voice grows.  Just like the water with every stone it clashes against, my life sings past the pain.  God can use my struggle to not only change the lives of others, but to strengthen me in my walk with Him.  
 
I love Carrie Underwood's song, "Something in the Water."  I think it is a beautiful way to wrap up this little life lesson.
                                                                                                                                                                   
         

Saturday, April 2, 2016

What's Your Center?

No matter what your ambition in life, we all have a purpose on this Earth.  Deep down in the heart of every human being lies a God given drive to make our mark on the World around us.  Some are quite overt about it and others allow fear to keep them from accomplishing their purpose.  However, we can't deny who we are or who God created us to be.

A little over a week ago, I was talking to a friend, and we were talking about motivation.  And, in true Tabby fashion, I thought of a kid's movie that had a great question in it.  Before I give you that question, I will show you the little snippet of this movie that motivated this conversation.

        

So, What Is Your Center?  What is it about you that drives you every single day?  What one aspect of who you are makes you get up in the morning ready to do your best?

In business, it is so important to know what your goal is.  When you know what your goal is, you can tailor your every day activities and plans to make that goal a reality.  It gives you a mark with which you can measure your success day by day.  The problem with a goal however, is that it is only one part of the equation.  If who you are inside doesn't match up with the goal you have placed for yourself, the results could be very disappointing.

As I started to reason out this equation, I began to see the "Center" of those around me.  I began linking up there goals with who they are, and in every successful person those elements go hand in hand.

For example, I have a friend who has this infectious enthusiasm that spills over onto everyone around him.  He has some very lofty goals, and he knows that with hard work and a little healthy competition he will get there.  He loves to win, and even more he loves to see those around him win.  Deep down motivating and helping others obtain their goals is totally his Jam!

While I could sit at my desk and reason the "Center" of those around me, I had a mental block when it came to myself.  I have been thinking about this question ever since that day.  What is it that God placed in me?  What was I created to do?

One night, during a time of worship, I had a breakthrough. (To be honest, I am really uncomfortable sharing this with you, but God is prompting me to do so.)  That night I could finally objectively look at my own life and see what drives me every single day.  To be honest, the answer is really quite simple but it explains my life thus far to a tee.  At my very "Center", is Love!

It is the most motivating aspect of my personality.  Every decision I have ever made, every goal I ever set for myself had at its core, Love.  More than anything else, I want to show the World around me what unconditional love looks like.  It is what drives me and makes me who I am.  At times, it has caused me to be quite vulnerable.  People in my past have taken advantage of this aspect of my personality.  But no matter what, I want to love people and show them how much God loves them.  It is the reason I get up in the morning, and the driving force of everything I do.

This realization about myself has helped me redefine my personal definition of success.  In my mind, I had reasoned that compared to others with my background, I had not accomplished much in my life.  However, God has redefined success for me in the light of who he created me to be.

So, what about you?  What drives you?  Do your goals fall in line with who you are?  Success can only be accomplished when our goals and who we are go hand in hand.  Motivation comes from within.  Despite what those motivational coaches out there want you to think, it starts on the inside.  So, What is your "Center"?